41 weeks- Never thought I'd get here! Sitting, Waiting, Wishing...

So, I did not think I would make it this far along, but here we are- almost 41 weeks and performing non- stress testing and ultrasounds every other day to make sure the little guy is still thriving in there.  The main things they are looking for are 1) a good amount of amniotic fluid, 2) fetal movement/heart rate, 3) practice breathing, and 4) the placenta to ensure it's not starting to break down.

I said it before and I'll say it again that I HATE the concept of "due" dates. It sets this expectation in everyone's (including my own!) mind and when you don't hit the date it's like panic sets in.  The majority of babies born to first-time moms are born after their "due" dates. One of the reasons that we have seen such a rise in cesarean rates is due to the fact that many OBs are opting to induce at 41 weeks or sooner. The latest research suggests that inductions increase your risk of surgical birth by more than 67%.  It is believed that the baby sends a signal (hormone or chemical) that starts the labor process (in conjunction with a ripe and ready cervix). In most doula, OB and midwives' books, as long as mom and baby are both healthy, it doesn't make sense to mess with that system. There are real risks that come with induction.

http://www.midwiferytoday.com/articles/timely.asp

So during the past week I have had numerous calls, texts and emails from friends and family wondering where Luke is.  I know they mean well, but I never knew people could be so obsessed with the arrival.  It is almost annoying.  No one wants him to come more than me and his daddy.  Only he and God will decide his birthday.  So until he decides it's time to come out we have the birth announcement all ready for him, we just need the date and stats!  Might have to change that date to July though...